Introducing Mom Essentials – A line of jewelry specifically curated for mamas and the hard and beautiful work they do.
When I first became a mom, I didn’t have make time for myself. I felt frumpy and gross the majority of the time, and while some of that comes with the territory of new mommydom, I honestly didn’t know that it didn’t have to be my reality for the rest of forever.
I didn’t know how to put an outfit together anymore and the only accessories I was wearing were a breast pump and spit up.
If any of this made you eek out “omygosh that’s me!”, then keep reading because I promise that you can be a good mom and feel good about yourself ALL AT THE SAME TIME.
Plus, there are free goodies at the bottom.
On learning to get dressed again
My personal story involves a heavy dose of poor self confidence style-wise pre-babe, and a life-crisis of sorts post-babe.
I literally did. not. know. how to get dressed anymore. Nothing fit, things weren’t where they used to be (and I’m not talking about the clothing in my closet), and in general nothing was working.
Now, I definitely don’t have it all figured out. I wouldn’t call myself a fashionista by any means. BUT, I know what to look for when I shop now, I am learning what looks best on my body type, and I am spending far less time crying in my closet.
My top tips for learning how to get dressed again:
Give yourself grace.
If you just went through a major life change (like having a baby!), things may fit differently.
Know the working parts of your closet.
Especially in seasons where things feel like they are fitting differently, knowing what works and what doesn’t in your closet is essential. If you’d like some more information or some individual coaching, go here.
Look for layers.
Having basics that play well with other things in your closet maximizes your wardrobe without minimal effort. This is why capsule wardrobes are so popular!
Stock up on good quality basics that fit.
Not all tees are made equally. You don’t need to spend $100 on a tee, but investing in more high quality pieces is going to pay off. They will last longer and be more flattering. There are countless bloggers and vloggers these days that tackle these topics, so maybe a little “fashion research” is in order!
Get yourself some hard working accessories.
More on that below.
Baby supplies are not accessories.
Seriously though.
I was afraid to wear jewelry at first because I didn’t want it to hurt my snuggly baby. And then I was afraid my grabby baby would hurt my jewelry.
Once you have a few basics that are flattering on your figure and you have a few layers to throw on (vests, jackets, scarves), it’s helpful to have some accessories to pull your look together! Jewelry is the missing piece that take all outfits from pretty good to great in less than 30 seconds!
As a mama, I wanted jewelry that met the specific demands that come with being “mama.” So I put together a line of jewelry that is just for moms, called Mom Essentials.
The SHORT & SWEET collection was designed especially for moms snuggling brand new babes and scooping up grabby toddlers. These pieces add sparkle to your everyday look without getting in the way. They were chosen to be cuddle friendly staples that are easy to wear, layer, and feel great in.
You’re a great mom.
I just wanted to let you know, in case no one’s told you today. You’re doing a great job raising those tiny humans. It’s hard work but good work!
It’s okay to feel good about yourself.
I struggle with this. Mom guilt is real! But taking time for you makes you a better mom – a better human, really. It is okay to feel good about yourself, to take care of yourself, to find what makes you feel pretty and to make time for those things!
When you feel good, you look good.
That confidence and beauty shines through from the inside out.
You’ll have so much more to pour out to your people if you take care of yourself! Whether that means scheduling time to shower, keeping make up in the car, mastering a few cute 4 minute hair styles, or learning how to look pulled together in 30 seconds (come join me in my VIP page – I’d love to share some secrets with you!)
Be prepared for those last minute days.
No matter how together we are, we ALL have chaotic, running late, somebody-smells-stinky-and-somebody-just-spilled-cheerios-everywhere-we-are-late-again days.
So, first of all you are not alone.
Second, here are some tips to turn those days around.
Have a go to jacket.
A leather moto or army green jacket (or vest!) can hide a multitude of sins stains. It adds structure and looks polished no matter if what’s underneath is a graphic tee or a pajama shirt.
Keep your bottoms basic.
Black leggings, yoga pants, jeans. No one will ever know you slept in them.
I also keep a mini stash of make up essentials in my purse and (often) apply in the car before going in wherever we are going. (Eyebrow gel, concealer, mascara are my must haves)Have go to jewelry!
Have some go to accessories.
Throw on a delicate necklace and earrings or a long necklace and you’ve just managed to look pulled together in 30 seconds or less. Bonus points for big sunnies that hide the mom badge known as bags under your eyes.
The THROW&GO collection was designed to help busy moms look put together in a hurry. These pieces can live on your counter, in your purse or in your car and be tossed on to pull an outfit together in a snap. They were chosen to be a simple way to make you feel more “together”, even when you’re wearing the leggings you slept in and are rocking that mom bun!
Katie says
I totally get this! I can’t live in yoga pants forever and now finally, after nine years of being a mom, I’m starting to put effort into my everyday look, rather than just my date night look. It’s really easier than it seems!
Anna says
I’m so glad you can relate. 😀
Katie says
Totally understand where you are coming from!! I’m with you! And you chose adorable pieces!!!
Anna says
🙂 Mama solidarity, right? And thank you!
Lizzy says
So very relevant and definitely something I struggle with. Got a couple of necklaces in the fixing pile after Miss nearly 2 gave them a good yank when I was wearing them after much deliberation.
Anna says
I can definitely relate!